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Look out for these signs while youβre dating before committing to a relationship with him:
1. How does he behave or treat you (RESPECTING YOU) and what is your response?
*Observe for at least 6 months before getting into a relationship*
One way to deter f*ck boys is to take it slow. F*ck boys typically donβt like to play the long gameβthe faster and easier a girl is, the more βtrophiesβ they have; they like to move on quickly to the next girl after they get bored of you (or after they get what they want iykyk)
One very important indicator of lasting, long term relationship is RESPECT. And sadly many girls compromise on this because they fall in love with the guy too early and easily and are afraid of breaking up and facing the prospect of being in the singles market again.
Strangely, ppl prefer to remain status quo even though theyβre unhappy with their partner as theyβre afraid of the unknown future ( What if the next one doesnβt come along? What if the next one is the same or worse? Etc etc)
Respect can look something like these:
1. Not controlling what you do or who you hang out with
2. Not saying things that are restricting your autonomy: βyou shouldβ βyou mustβ β im doing this because i love you β
3. Not trying to push you into being intimate when youβve told him NO and youβre not ready
4.Not making jokes or giving backhanded compliments on your looks or hobbies or friends
5. Not flying into a rage
(violent tendencies, vulgarities, throwing things or hurting himself) when you reject his advances or say/do things thatβs not pleasing to him
Your response:
If he displays any signs of disrespect towards you, how do you respond?
-Do you brush it aside and think that itβs just a one-off incident and heβs probably βtoo angry at the momentβ or βloves you too muchβ?
- Do you compromise and give in to his needs EVEN BEFORE both of you become an item?
-Do you feel uncomfortable with how pushy and controlling he is yet you try to convince yourself that youβre probably thinking too much and it will get better with time?
If you love and respect yourself enough, you shouldnβt be compromising so much and making yourself uncomfortable just to make the other person happy.
What you mistakenly believe is love β sweet-nothings, grand gestures to become better and change or love you forever, and showering you with attention and gifts and pampering you like a princess TOO EARLY in the dating phase are all signs of a F*ck boy. A decent man will take the time to know you better as an individual first before deciding to commit to you ( instead of confessing that he loves you within 1 month of the barely dating
Phase)
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