🙅‍♀️Rahasiaku untuk STOP jadi people pleaser❌

Dulu aku bingung banget bedain my own people pleasing behavior sama just me being genuinely selfless.

Ternyata beda banget.

People pleasing behavior: based on fear😰

Selflessness act: based on love❤️

Contoh:

❌People pleasing: Bantu handle kerjaan partner kerja karena takut dianggep kurang kontribusi kalo gak bantuin.

✅Selflessness: Bantu handle kerjaan partner kerja karena pure pengen bantu & liat temen kerjanya nyaman & gak burnout.

Ini cuma contoh aja yah, guys.

🙅‍♀️Rahasia stop jadi people pleaser:

As i begin to shift apa yang mendasari tindakanku (from fear to love), i start to notice that i have becoming better in this matter.

Gak bisa langsung tiba-tiba berubah drastis dalam sekejap.

Ganti fear-based action jadi love-based action. Gak cuma ke orang lain, tapi ke diri sendiri juga.

Sambil pelan-pelan coba belajar bangun healthy boundaries (balik lagi, gak cuma ke orang lain, tapi ke diri sendiri juga).

Hope this helps, ya!

With love always,

Vio

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