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Dulu aku bingung banget bedain my own people pleasing behavior sama just me being genuinely selfless.
Ternyata beda banget.
People pleasing behavior: based on fear😰
Selflessness act: based on love❤️
Contoh:
❌People pleasing: Bantu handle kerjaan partner kerja karena takut dianggep kurang kontribusi kalo gak bantuin.
✅Selflessness: Bantu handle kerjaan partner kerja karena pure pengen bantu & liat temen kerjanya nyaman & gak burnout.
Ini cuma contoh aja yah, guys.
🙅♀️Rahasia stop jadi people pleaser:
As i begin to shift apa yang mendasari tindakanku (from fear to love), i start to notice that i have becoming better in this matter.
Gak bisa langsung tiba-tiba berubah drastis dalam sekejap.
Ganti fear-based action jadi love-based action. Gak cuma ke orang lain, tapi ke diri sendiri juga.
Sambil pelan-pelan coba belajar bangun healthy boundaries (balik lagi, gak cuma ke orang lain, tapi ke diri sendiri juga).
Hope this helps, ya!
With love always,
Vio
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