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So boom I broke up w my ex about 3 years ago we lived together overseas while in the military (we werenât married) we ended up breaking up , then I got out of the military and we were still living together for about 3-4 months after the breakup but it wasnât really healthy long story short I needed up coming back home to TX. We werenât in great terms but we would talk whenever he called me here and there but he was doing him still he just called cause he missed me. Then 10 months go by and he calls telling me he wants to see me so he flies me out to where he was for a few days . After that we talked here and there , then the distance between the communication became larger so 4 months go by he calls , then another 3 months he would call and so on. So fast forward to today. I decided to give someone else a try and we were talking for about a year it was long distance so mostly FaceTime. So he (the new person) moved back to TX this past May because he got out of the military. So we been living together since. My ex calls me here and there this whole time but very Inconsistent. So he calls me about a week in half ago and tells me he wants to see me because he misses me so much and he has a connecting flight to Dfw airport. So Iâm he ask if itâs ok and I was hesitant at first one because I havenât seen him in almost 2 years and two Iâm talking to another person! But I still agree to meet w him and see him etc. So like he stayed for 2 days then left back to his station across the country. We talked and he basically said he recently got out of a relationship and he isnât ready to date anyone so I asked him âdo you think youâll get back w her again?â He said âitâs a possibility , just like with you itâs a possibility â I been pondering on that and I had a talk with the dude I talk to (new person) yesterday and I basically told him I need time to fix my mental health so that I can be better in general and also be better in a relationship because obviously I DONT KNOW WHAT IM DOING! So I feel really crazy for ending things with him because he is everything Iâve prayed for but Iâm not ready for him because I still allow my ex to come and go. What does it sound like to talk when he said âitâs a possibility , just like with you is a possibility â like what do I do??? Should I take that time to heal and text my ex to fuck off im not an option , or should I tell (new person) that I still want the relationship ? Because I really dooo I love him but I feel I love him enough to know that Iâm wrong and until my ex is completely out of my life we wonât function as we should because he isnât getting 100% me because my emotions are all over the place when it comes to my ex. Am I a horrible person? âčïž I genuinely need help I donât want to through it all away and itâs not worth it. What is you guyâs thoughts ? Please donât judge but do be honest! Thanks in advance đđ#seriousrelationship #help #advice #Lemon8 #relationship