What Sex Means to Men

Men and women view sex differently. Of course, there is variance on both sides because we are all unique individuals, but on a biological level, most men have more testosterone, which changes their views on sex. However, it might not be in the ways you think!

Men have a greater sexual desire than us, so it can sometimes seem like they are just using us for sex, but in some cases, that isn’t the case. Sex is a man’s way of expressing and feeling emotional connection. They don’t feel that emotional connection from communication or emotional intimacy, they feel it from sex. So, your man's desire to have sex with you isn’t always a selfish desire, it can actually be his way of connecting.

In this way, sex isn’t just physical to most men. It's a means for feeling safe and secure enough in a relationship to open up emotionally. So, if you having trouble feeling emotionally connected to your man, sex might be worth a try!

All that being said… some men are snakes (but so are some women). Don’t just have sex with a guy because you think it will finally make him commit or open up. These facts are true for guys that really love and care about you, not guys that pressure you into sex when you aren’t feeling it. If your feeling pressured, let your man know. If he keeps making you feel that way… walk away!

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