Why I will never date bad boys again ❌ PART 1

“So I fall in love just alittle bit everyday with someone new” - Hoizer Song (Someone New)

Some quotes that resonates me closely in some sort of way. In the past, often I fall in love easily with someone new one after another. I truly question how I managed to do that, and how people can meet that one person throughout. Don’t get me wrong I don’t think I’m a player but I ain’t right either and here is why.

1. I used to like “bad boys”

2. “All good boys goes to heaven, bad boys bring heaven to you” mentality

The start:

I had a full life plan written out when on my first relationship. We were 16, I was a typical teacher’s pet and he was a delinquent transfer to my school at Sec 4 with full back and 1 full thigh tattoos. I help his dad to wash their car, I also help his parents keep track of his performance in school, I make him study with me. Teachers, friends and parents told me how he is affecting my studies. So I told him to first have a break until exams are over so I can prove to my parents and teachers that he is not obstructing my studies, he went on Twitter cyber bullying me with his friends outside of school. So then I convince myself that it’s good that I dodge a bullet. Ever since then I have the mentality “if it’s not the right one, I have to find one that truly love me”. So apparently I just keep finding one after another bad boys with the idea I can change them and “bad boys will bring the heaven to you”.

Wow. So naive