Bridesmaidzilla: "I can help u cos I free le"

Remember that gift ❤️‍🔥 says she wanna give me to show me how much she loves me?

Remember how much she emphasized that we are just 1 street away?

1. I didn't want to meet her the next day after our fight so I cancelled on her (1st time in 20 years! It had always been her cancelling on me.)

2. Then 1 week later on a Saturday, ❤️‍🔥 says she will be nearby so she'll pass me the gift. She changed the plan, and said,"I pass by your house and pass you on Tuesday ya? Around 10pm, you should be home already."

3. Then before Tuesday comes, again changed her plan on Sunday 11.55pm and told me,"I'm coming out to buy supper in 5 minutes. You home? I pass you the gift." Of which I declined because I'm not here waiting for her gift one leh. Okay, changed to Monday pass to me.

4. Monday comes and ❤️‍🔥 told me to let her know when I'm home so she can pass the gift to me. There was no news from her at 7.30pm so I texted her roughly what time is she coming. No reply. By 10.45pm, I text her saying,"Pass me next time. Can pass me during bridesmaid meeting dinner too."

I don't know what was ❤️‍🔥 busy with. She only read and replied the messages at 2am. Busy with Mobile Legend maybe? Her reply was with no apology at all.

Ding dong here ding dong there so much for a gift that I'm not even interested because of her.

AND THE BRIDESMAIDS DINNER THAT SHE ASKED WHEN AND WHERE - 🧚‍♀️ AND I LITERALLY JUST SENT MESSAGES IN THE GROUP CHAT TO CONFIRM THE TIME AND DATE. 🤯

But ❤️‍🔥 didn't forget to ask me what hairdo will I be doing. Will it be fully tied up? Will there be extension clip-ons?

I really couldn't figure out what was it that ❤️‍🔥 wants. I just find it super gross at that point because she was seemingly forcing me to get her help when I'd already said it's okay so many times. Like... Is she seriously that obtuse?

I really don't care what ❤️‍🔥 does with her make up or hair. No one cares. Yet she keeps telling me how she'll do it so that she can "help me as much as possible" from 5 plus to 10 plus.

wTF with "that's the fastest and best I can do for you le"?! Should I kneel down and kowtow to you?? 🙄

The way we (me, 🧚‍♀️, and my husband, and whoever I complained about this to) all interpret is ❤️‍🔥 was trying to say:

- Because I settled my hair with the "fastest and best I can do for you already"

- Now I want to help you as much as possible, so I don't care if you keep telling me it's okay because I want to help so you need to give me something and be grateful

- Because my hair is settled because I made do with a fake hair ponytail, so I got time for you so again, you should be grateful to me that I find time to be with you for tea ceremony

ALL WHEN THE AD SCHEDULE ALREADY SAYS SHE WILL BE HELPING ME OUT DURING MY TEA CEREMONY BECAUSE HER MAKE UP SESSION STILL NOT UP.

All goes to show that ❤️‍🔥 didn't even look at the schedule I've been sending.

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