Bridesmaidzilla Incident 02: AD Schedule

My BF and I came up with a more detailed AD schedule immediately over the weekend after the 1st incident to ensure that we got everything we can think of covered, and in efforts of trying to hint & dissuade ❤️‍🔥 from being so insistent of having her way.

I was hoping that she would be a little more auto and take a hint.

Since she initially only stated she needs to "wash up", I allocated her 45 minutes for that purpose. Because a quick wash up wouldn't take too long, and if it was a legit wash up then she wouldn't need 2 hours at all.

I sent the AD schedule in the morning, and ❤️‍🔥 only responded to it directly (she replied to my message) in the afternoon. That was because she was busy liaising with her favourite bridal MUA on the *new* timing to match the "loopholes" she can find in my schedule to escape for her face and hair to be done.

Trust me, she wasn't busy with work. Her job gives her the flexibility to work anytime, despite it being an office job. She doesn't need to go to office regularly, and she can start work anytime. She doesn't start work at 8 plus and work until afternoon one.

❤️‍🔥's bridal MUA says she can do 12.30pm to 2.30pm. This time period was my tea ceremony, so ❤️‍🔥 thinks the bride doesn't need her bridesmaid and she can therefore be excused.

To be honest, everything on a wedding day is very fluid. I won't be able to pinpoint when I need my bridesmaids with me and when I do not. There're so many uncertainties which I was expecting that she already know since she got married twice.

Turns out, nothing and nobody was more important than herself and her perfect makeup & hairdo. ❤️‍🔥 only cared about herself and what she wants to do.

❤️‍🔥’s husband’s car is our supporting car that should be around to fetch our bridesmaids and groomsmen to hotel, now because ❤️‍🔥 die die wants her 2 hours make up session, everything cannot follow as per initial plan.

So in efforts to keep to my plan and help me get what I want, 🧚🏻‍♀️ decided to step in and suggested to ❤️‍🔥 that ❤️‍🔥’s husband (calling him 👤 from now on) to drive ❤️‍🔥 back to their home for her god darned 2 hours must-have make up session, then he drive back to fetch 🧚🏻‍♀️ and the groomsmen to the hotel, and then when ❤️‍🔥 is finally done with her make up, 👤 drive back from the hotel to their house to fetch ❤️‍🔥. LOL. (Very lehceh I know but it wasn't me who made it lehceh for 👤, it was 👤's wife aka ❤️‍🔥.)

Her absolute reluctance to give up her make up session was very evident in her responses. The "I can try to ask me but if cannot then xxx" kind of reply.... ❤️‍🔥 was reluctant to let go of her make up session which she doesn't need and reluctant to let go of her husband 👤 to help us out because he is her personal chauffeur.

Honestly speaking, the transportation to hotel all that for 🧚🏻‍♀️ and the groomsmen could be settled very easily – They can of course take grab themselves. But why am I so insistent of her accommodating to my schedule? Because I was fucking buay song that why must I accommodate to ❤️‍🔥's desire to have her private favourite make up artiste ON MY WEDDING DAY when she is supposed to perform her bridesmaid duties?

At this point, I was on the verge of not being able to trust her with anything at all anymore.

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