✍🏻 dating dairies | first date filled with 🚩🚩🚩

This date happened sometime back, but whenever I recount it to my friends, they're always very entertained😆 so I thought I'd share it over here too

I matched with this guy on a dating app, and we decided to meet up after a week of texting. He exhibited so many red flags during the date he should be counted in the Guinness World Record lololol

🚩 He was late for 45 minutes

- He suggested the date and place but was late for almost an hour. He said he was busy with work, so I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt...

🚩 He lied to me during the date!?

- Halfway through our conversation, he suddenly said, "Actually, you're very gullible" I'm like, "??? What do you mean?" So he said he has lied to me multiple times during our conversation... wth bruh???? He didn't explain the reason why, but I guess he thought it was fun?

🚩 He kept hitting my HEAD

- We were at the restaurant with live music, so light sticks were given to all the customers to wave along with the music. He just started randomly hitting my head with the light stick!?I told him to stop, but he just smirked and continued, saying, "I know you won't do anything about it"

🚩 He asked me to help him swipe his dating app.l

- This is just so weird and disrespectful tbh. There was also a pretty lady seated across from us, and he said(joked?) that he wants her to be his sugar mommy...🤢

🚩 He complained about his ex

- He spent like half the time talking about his ex and how he did so much for her, but she didn't reciprocate... one example he gave was that he booked a nice staycation for her, but she didn't put out.... basically painting himself as a "nice guy" who sacrificed alot for his ex

⁉️ yall might be wondering why I didn't leave after noticing the first few red flags, but that's because I drank quite a bit of 🍺 and I was feeling tipsy, so the red flags didn't seem too serious to me during the date. Only after I sobered up did I realize, "wtfff, why didn't I leave earlier?" HAHAHA

🤓 lesson learned: in the future, I definitely won't sit through a date that makes me feel so uncomfortable lolol

Still makes a good story to tell my friends though LOL

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