✂️ Friend after 5 years ❌ MIA-ED BRIDE

what is the true definition for “bridemaid”?

a long term friend?

a sole mate?

a sister from another mom?

a sister-ship?

a close friend?

a girlfriend that everyone knows about?

well, i guess all for them. right?

so this (ex)friend previously mentioned she’s very excited to be my bm when i got proposed. during one of our friend’s wedding (5years back), she gladly opened her mouth and said, she’s v honoured to be our bm in both our wedding day. i truly felt, wow ive found my true love friends after all these years.

however, things went downhill when after mine….

started off by not replying texts in bm gc. on off reply ‘ok’, ‘thanks’. even giving measurements for the bm dress took almost 1 week to complete. (after a few reminders by the maid of honors and bride)

along with the discussions on how to get all the girls and bride to meet up, to have all things done and delicate some works to be done in the upcoming months. this friend decided to mention she’s going overseas, and only have a time frame being free. thereafter, she’s heading for another holiday, no time meet up.

i’ve spoke to her privately the 2nd time and seek for her understanding that i’ve plans going on with everyone and i need to get as much work done as possible and my wedding in 6months time.

she ignored bride’s text. (how right? lol.)

for the 3rd time, i was pissed and asking whether she is waiting for me to strike her off from the bm list or just purely not interested anymore?

guess this (ex) friend of mine decided to take the easy way out by replying me by proceed striking her out. she herself explained the situation to another close friend of ours that she’s rather busy her ass off by helping her cousin’s newly opened biz. (yeah i get it, everyone’s adult. got their own stuff to busy on). on the other hand, she’s able to post videos and stuff on social media. she don’t even bother to reply a bride’s messages.

girlies, if a person is not genuinely happy and excited for you. pls do not consider them as a friend or so called a person in your life. they can change and snap their attitude on you.

(yup, she told our close friends saying - take it as she owe me in previous life. and made the bride a bad person.) tilt much 😛