Story time: Toxic ex-friend

So as mentioned in my pws post Here, it’s time for story. Let’s call this toxic ex-friend C.

Disclaimer: The friend in the photo is still my bff, let’s call her M 😂

Trigger point: Also this photo - so M and the pregnant me + belle decided to go for a playdress sales which is ending soon. So we went for dinner before heading to playdress. C saw our ig and decided to just leave the chat. Why? Because she has asked M to go over her house for dinner which M did not promise in the first place (we all saw the SS). That’s when all her dirty plays got exposed.

I knew C since primary school, we lost touch, reconnected and I intro her a job. Given her background, I assured the manager that she will be humble and willing to learn- I WAS FREAKING WRONG.

Tbh, starting she was ok, abit refuse to learn but manageable. But nightmare came after M came to picture. M was hired and became her partner. Story cut short, she became very possessive over M. To what extent you may ask, I leave it for you to decide.

Honestly I can only rmb the part after it got escalated:

1. We have another mutual BFF and she sent photos to our group chat on my bday where M is playing my daughter at Vivo the water play. C reached w her son, and face super black. We thought her son make her angry. Guess what? Plot twist: she said she was angry with M because M kept playing w my daughter. M ignore her confrontations but she screenshot from tele to WhatsApp her and ask her to validate her feelings cause she felt jealous when M took photos of herself w my daughter and post on ig (seriously???) she said she tried to calm down act nothing happen? LOL what

2. She told M that she don’t like me and M 一唱一和？ Is she the bf of M? She tried to make M hate me and she brainwashed her with many many rumours:

- C said that I jealous she had a bf back then and I quickly went to find a bf to faster marry. Seriously? Why would I use my own lifetime happiness to compete w her? LOL she really very confident. I married in 2019 and she got registered only in 2022/23?

- C said I copy her go take wedding photo 🤣 as mentioned previously, I enquired in 2019 then covid happened then pregnant. That’s why we only took last year before baby2 which we planned for.

- C said I was cheapo, I go Korea Japan only buy snacks for her. THEN BUY WHAT? Keychains? Magnets??? But in the group chat she kept asking me “don’t keep buying for us, you just enjoy urself” VOMIT

3. She don’t allow M to call me “mama” which she used to cause she said she will be jealous. When M puts a heart to my text, C will ask her to remove 🙃

4. She kept making fun and jokes of us, but when we do the same to her, or rather when I do to her, she will be freaking angry at me #whatarefriendsfor

There are still so many small nitty gritty stuff which I can’t rmb, but she was exposed after she ownself left the group chat because she can’t stand seeing M with my daughter (LOL)

Anyway we have moved on from this “friendship, we are now happier without her 😂

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