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Read Part 1 here: Guy N

Read Part 2 here: Guy N Part 2

TGIF ZESTIES 🍋 hope yall had a great week!

Here’s the final part about guy N! As i was saying, one fine night i couldn’t sleep so i decided to look up guy N’s instagram and his followings. I used my spam account to do this so he doesn’t know. I viewed his story and he posted 2 photos of the food he was having at a carnival, which i found weird as he told me he didn’t like taking photos of food. And for some weird reason, i clicked into his followings and clicked into a random girl’s profile and decided to watch her story. LET ME JUST TELL YOU THAT AT THIS POINT, INSTAGRAM DID NOT HAVE THE WHO U FOLLOWED LATEST/FOLLOWERS FUNCTION. AND BOOM that random girl i clicked into, she was on a date with guy N. She didn’t post his face but i could hear his voice and it was the same food he posted. I was amazed as A GURL’S SIX SENSE IS REALLY AMAZING. Out of alllll his followings (he followed lots of girls), i chose 1 to watch her story and BINGO ‼️‼️‼️Obviously i was upset as i rlly liked him but i knew we weren’t exclusive so he was not wrong to date others. I was a little disappointed i must admit.

Fast forward, we were still texting and i remember sending him an article about jurong point’s new arcade opening. He asked if i wanted to go coz i sent him that. I replied “yes, if you want to bring me”. Then he just magically changed the subject lmao 🙊 We met for the 3rd time a few weeks later for lunch and a movie. Honestly i can’t remember how we set a date, but i sort of knew that was the end. He booked the movie tickets in advance and the only avail timing was at about 3pm, so i asked if he wanted to meet earlier to have lunch and walk around. He said sure and suggested to meet at 1.30pm. If you do the calculations, we didn’t have much time to talk and walk around. But i just said okay. And I WAS RIGHT - By the time we finished our meal, went to pee and walked to the cinema we were just on time. Anyway, he paid for everything on that date. Once the movie ended, we went to ikea coz i had to get something and the end. I could actually take the same train home as him. It’s a further journey for me, but i didn’t need to change line but he would alight first. Or, i could take another train but need to change line. So i asked him which one. He just quickly replied take the change line train and said bye to me as his train just arrived. WHAT’S WITH ME AND TRAINS WITH GUYS LOL (if you remember guy S 😩). Again, i was sad coz i didn’t mind spending a bit more time with him, oh wells. On the way home, i msged him to ask if he wanted to split the bill out of curtesy and also to gauge his interest level (reference our first date when he told me don’t pay him so the next bill will be on me aka wants to meet me again). BUT THIS TIME ROUND HE REPLIED “you want to split ah?”. I replied sure or something like that but eventually he changed topic 🙃

For the next 2-3 weeks, we were texting lesser and lesser and eventually just faded off for about 1 week. But suddenly after 1 week he messaged me and so happened it was during my birthday iirc. We were messaging about the f1 race while we were watching it separately on tv, it felt nice again. But once the race ended, THE MINUTE THE FIRST CAR PASSED THE FINISH LINE, POOF he disappeared again. And the slow and super late replies started. I’m fine if it’s a couple of hours slow replies but it was SO SO BAD till i could message him at 9am and he only replied at 7pm 🤔

And so i decided to end things with him because i felt it wasn’t worth it at all. Here i was trying to put in the effort but there he was fading away. So i told him we should stop talking and see pic 1 to see what he told me. He said he definitely wanted to understand me more but there was no effort AT ALL to understand me more. So that’s all for guy N! I have 1-2 more stories to tell about different guys but i’ll leave that for next time 🙏🏻 hope you’ve enjoyed my past few stories 🤪 dating can be really fun but yet again, really tough/tiring too.

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