RED FLAG in any Ship, Push My Limit Button.

Hola lemonade 🍋

Human connection is an important part of our lives. In any relationship between humans they all need good communication and tolerance. No matter how much you value the other parties , if intolerance behaviour was in your "ship", that's an early sign of toxic and disrespect.

Today I'm gonna share 5 top REDFLAG , that PUSH the LIMIT BUTTON 🔘🤚

1️⃣ MANIPULATIVE 🚩

- Is someone who has a tendency to play victim, gaslighting and ignoring your emotions. Communicating with this kind of people may take you to another level of patience. We need more to observ and stalking skills. You have to be smart. Why this can push my limit button? Never ending argument and mentally exhausted that involve a lots of dramatic incident. It's totally RED FLAG for me😪

2️⃣ ABUSIVE BEHAVIOUR 🚩

- Based on my experience. While in that "SHIP" , we usually didn't realise that we are being abused mentally, physically & emotionally etc. We tend to claim it's their love language, other people might experience the same while in the phase. It's actually Stockholm Syndrome . A big NO . Abusive behaviour can cause trauma PTSD and mentally damaged.

3️⃣ ANGER MANAGEMENT ISSUE🚩

- We supposed to feel comfortable with someone we close to. But being around with someone with bad temper, very unexpectedly, you might feel unsafe and threatened. Anyone who uses anger as an intimidation tactic is definitely toxic to me. Once i know the fact, sorry Red Flag raised 🤚. Even someone's shout while angry makes me turn off.

4️⃣ CONSTANTLY COMPARING🚩

- Hate being compared with others. I believe each of us will have different strength and way to achieve the best and way of life. Sometimes we might be able to accept the things happen sometime it just to big for us to adapt, we might need a support not a comparison. I will slowly leave this type of person, and ignore their opinion. It hurts me and is badly impacted, emotionally and mentally.

5️⃣ NARCISM🚩

- Indicates self-obsession and a misplaced sense of importance.Being emotionally involved with a narcissistic, ego-driven person can be exhausting and traumatizing. Their needs will always be considered more important than yours. No TOLERANCE in this world for them. Failed to communicate and interact healthily. It's totally 🚩

Those are the top 5 red flags that push my limit button. As a human and i value myself, I don't want to waste my time doing something don't return the same energy as i did. I prefer to take care of my mental health, I'm not depending on anyone else. I'm choosing my way to live in a healthier way .

loveLynn 💕

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