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My family's in SG and so am I, but I don't have Christmas plans with them.
There's a societal emphasis on family / togetherness. And media often presents an idealized vision of what the holidays should be like.
So yes, I will admit that the sight of happy families gathering around festive meals still tugs at my heartstrings. I can't help but to detach emotionally, crack a joke, move on.
Even though it's been so many years.
Even though I tell myself I'm old enough to be over it.
Even though I have rationally "written it off" because it's the route I chose.
If you're like me, here's what you can do instead during the holiday szn:
1️⃣ 𝗖𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗯𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 "𝗰𝗵𝗼𝘀𝗲𝗻" 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆
No one said that holiday celebrations have to be blood-related. Take this opportunity to honor your "chosen" family.
E.g. Friends, colleagues, your partner, even neighbors who've stood with you during highs and lows. Plan meals, host a small party, or simply share a cozy conversation over a cup of hot coffee/tea ☕️🍵
2️⃣ 𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝘀
Whether it's baking your fav festive cookies, watching holiday movies, decorating a mini-tree, or writing gratitude letters, create your own holiday rituals that bring you joy and comfort.
These personal rituals can become anchors of your holiday memories and give a sense of continuity and peacefulness.
3️⃣ 𝗟𝗶𝗺𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗮
I've said it before and I'll say it again.
Personally, I try to minimize social media usage on 24/25th December & CNY days.
Why? Bc we're often bombarded by images of 'perfect' holidays. Take a break from social media during the holiday szn to avoid unnecessary comparisons and focus on what truly matters—being present ☺️
And yes, the irony that you're seeing this on lemon8 isn't lost on me. BUT STILL 🙈
4️⃣ 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗼𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘇𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲
Self-care might look different for everyone, but as a homebody, this is what I'm looking forward to during this Christmas / year-end szn even though I'm not travelling 😌
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I'd love to know how you cope with the holiday blues if you're like me & aren't close to family. Let’s chat in the comments?
P.S. I write about home & living, relationships & career on lemon8—follow for more adulting fun 🥲
And join me on IG @livingsmall.ig if you wanna be friends! ❤️
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