BE THE CONFIDENT GURL BOSS YOU ARE😎

I have been struggling with the term “self-love” since the age of 13 and I’m so glad to FINALLY LOVE ME🫶🏻 It has changed my life so much and I would say that I AM SO MUCH HAPPIER NOW AND HEADING TOWARDS MY CONFIDENT GURL BOSS ERA😌 and you should too!!! Here are some steps I took towards self-love:

1. STOP COMPARING‼️

Don’t ever compare yourself to the photos you see on social media. Clear skin, slim body, big pretty eyes are all things you can easily achieve with the help of technology nowadays😤 No one is perfect and IT IS OK TO SHOW YOUR FLAWS ☺️ Why stay upset over something you can’t change? You can’t change your hormones in hopes of clearer skin. You can’t change your genes for your body shape. AND idk if this is something anyone’s insecure about but I had a hard time accepting how my eyes looked because they are uneven in almost all the photos I take BUT everyone’s 2 eyes are of different sizes so don’t be so insecure about it!💕

2. You are the main character in your life👑

Don’t care about what others might say or think of you and just do what you wanna do. Wanna post that pic? Just do it👊🏻 CONFIDENCE IS KEY GUYS!! The aura around you will be drastically different when you have confidence. Walk around with you head up high and you are halfway there😚 Find ways you can feel more confident. Maybe learning to curl your hair or discovering a new way to do your makeup (NOT THAT YOU WILL NEED IT TO BE CONFIDENT) or just changing your accessories! Pst.. dangling and big hoop earrings make your face look slimmer😏

3. FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT!😜

There was a phase where I would dress up and go out every single chance I get just becausedressing up makes me feel good! After coming home from my day out, I would stare in the mirror and “admire” myself. You know when you feel good = good mood = better perspective of yourself!

4. Pamper Yourself💋

Wanna splurge on the dress you feel fabulous in? YES (but of coz check your bank before doing it). Feel like taking a break from everything? Go ahead you deserve it! 😉 No one will love and stay with you as long as you yourself will!! Do what makes you happy, wear whatever you feel confident in and invest in yourself FOR YOURSELF! What I mean is to glow-up for the sake of yourself and not for anyone else☝🏻YOU CAN GET YOURSELF FLOWERS💐

5. Learning About You!🧐

Discover what looks best on you and constantly find ways to better yourself. Learn what type of clothes you feel most comfortable and confident in! A dress is just a piece of cloth till you wear it and bring it to life😚 Self-love is also knowing your worth and pushing yourself to be the best version of yourself so go do what you wanna do and don’t regret in the future😌

Don’t be so harsh on yourself and in times of doubt, just wear your genuine smile!!

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