[ How get over a Breakup]

1.Make A List of what you where gaining from that relationship whether it’s confidence or being love name all the things you can think of that you Gain and if you can’t think of at least one thing that says it all love but make the List.

2.Make a List what you where losing from the relationship wether it’s yourself your friends family anything you feel like you Lost because of that relationship put it down if theirs like dozens of things you lost like i said that says it all and if you didn’t lose anything at all or just like one or a few things that’s says it all to.

3.It’s okay for a break up to happen sometimes it’s very much needed people view a Break up as a bad thing but it’s really not cause if you are not loved by each other and it’s just pure hatred then it’s good for a Break up cause y’all both need to heal wether your and the wrong or the right it’s clear we all need to hear from a break up especially if it was a Bad one.

4.Express how you feel about it and a Positive way I see a lot of girls being Negative about the situation and when you do that it’s not helping you heal it’s bringing you down now that you keep reminding your self about it and a Negative away and Dwelling on the situation making you not get over so just try be positive cause your words matter.

5.Use your pain as Motivation to not let it happen again if you got hurt for Example let’s say your Partner cheated Use that Pain to Motivate you to know not to ever put up with that again so if you since cheating and your relationship your not going wait and let it go on for a while until you get tried your going leave at that moment you know your being cheated on so you don’t get hurt even more.

6.Learn from what happen learn from the past relationships learn how the Negative was coming and the relationship so and the next relationship you could clear it up with the Positive so you won’t have to repeat the same relationship over again.

7.Move on Don’t be stuck on the same person forever I mean I get it but I’m not saying find a new partner but Just go back to being you start putting yourself out their talk to people be Single that’s all I’m not saying you got to do these things but Just move on.

8. Don’t be afraid to cry because just let it all out all the hurt pain we need to grow them eyelashes anyway so let all the hurt out.

9.Not going and Detail but Glow up show them what their Missing or don’t

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