💙 the best relationship~ unchaotic, calming love

*our best relationship*

Just a note - aren’t as EASY AS IT SOUNDS. I’ve BARELY seen anyone around me doing the same for their partners.

We actively take action cause…

🤯 What makes a relationship a relationship is 1% confessing and saying “yes”.

📚 99% the efforts, commitments and how you’ve made them **your habit** and ADAPTING THOSE habits to make it more fun~ 🤩

🗣️ enough yapping, into the post ✉️

1. Helping each other grow

❌ Asian culture. Almost none of our parents know how to handle emotions well. Generational thing.

I don’t like it, so I don’t do it.

✅ Open communication and creating a safe space for us to share our feelings was important for me. (Our families *never* did take care of our emotions)

💙 She always tried to hold her feelings in at the start. I understood. I sat down, told her how hard it is to open up (without feelings scared/neglected) after living in an emotionally non-existent family. Blablah yapperican express 🫨

🤝 It’s US against the problem, not each other. ~old man leo

1b. Focusing and pushing each other to reach our goals 📈

🌳 Ask not accuse. We always ask each other “Are you busy?” “Do you like it when I…” etc.

Really keeps vibes calmingggg instead of assuming each other’s intentions. ❌

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🌳 🌲 🌴 example text I get from her

“Baby I know you are busy doing your best :) but can you please tell me when you have to study or do some work? ( I promise I just want to know, sometimes I can't help overthink whether your busy doing your best or just ignoring me) I'm sorry if it's too much to ask I just want to know so I know not to bother you , I also wait up for you if you don't reply :) although most of the times I fall asleep” 💤

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2. Your partner will become a mini you!

Makes me think 🤔 💭 I really wanna show her all my confidence at full force ‼️

She’ll become so attractive if she grows to be like me 😎😁

3. Showing my true self

✅ i actually have an **extremely confident** attitude towards literally anything 🔥😎

But I don’t show that to most people, cause **ahem** most people, tend to assume you are cocky or attach a negative connotation to people who display a relentless confidence ✨

Thats a mini note about us… for more posts about me and my green rainforest. Please drop a like! ❤️

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