Am I the a**hole?

So these messages (May 25) and post (June 22) was made by my biological mother. A little background story I was taken from my bio mom at the age of 8 due to drugs and alcohol and didn’t talk to her for 10 years after that. This past year I reached out for the first time and tried to reconnect with her. Then about two weeks after Mother’s Day I cut her out of my life again.

Every time I try to talk to her about my wedding or whatever all she does is ignore me and talk about her own marital issues. I finally got tired of it, and with her constantly bringing me down so I gave up trying with her.

She got mad because my sisters and I didn’t wish her a happy Mother’s Day when she hasn’t even been our mom for over 10 years and doesn’t act like a mother should either. Ever since I was old enough to take care of my self (age 5) I have also been caring for my little sister and trying to keep my mother sober or present in our lives. I’m worn out.

So am I the a**hole for cutting her out of my life again? (Sorry I know that was a lot)

#venting #tired #overwhelmed #adoption #abusesurvivor