AM I THE ASSHOLE ????

Hey guys I got a story to tell, am I the asshole for telling my dad he’s dead to me after what he said so I had asked my dad to apologize to my boyfriend for disrespecting him and he basically told me he’s not gonna apologize to him and then said other things but I’m not gonna get into it but he told me that I’m not a capable parent to my daughter and that my boyfriend isn’t good for me and that I’m sad asf for be with someone who is a sad individual but little does he know when I was broke and didn’t have anything on the verge of ending it all my boyfriend came and picked me up and helped me , got me on my feet and helped me get where I was when I was pregnant and nobody else fed or checked on me my boyfriend did everything for me and gave me what i needed for our baby and he bought us clothes , helped me with food stamps , and helped with everything I need when nobody else did and my dad told me he isn’t good for me and that my baby needs better parents and I said okay and what bout my sister my sister is 20 something and her boyfriend jus turned 19 last year he was a kid when they got tg and he doesn’t treat her good but he likes her boyfriend and not mine the one who does everything for me he told me when ,y boyfriend get us out of the situation we are in and get money he will respect him but little did he know we jus got approved for our first place and we making money and bout to get a whole car and he doesn’t respect my man at all 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ so am I the asshole for saying he’s dead to me #amitheahole #badfather #why👎🏻 #sodone