Need relationship advice!!

🔹Okay guys I need some advice from all sides!

🔹I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 20.

🔹He is military and I am not.

🔹Been dating for a little over two months.

🔻My problem🔻: I feel like the effort is already not being put into the relationship.

I spend some weekends at the barracks with him and all we do is stay inside the room, and he sleeps probably 70% of the two days in there....now hold on..

But he will stay up ridiculously late gaming and partying with his friends for over 12 hours. And this weekend he went all the way to LA with his boys.

🔶 My issues is that he will not put the same afford into us as he does his friends. He could party for a week straight and I wouldn't care as long as when he's done he came to me and matched that same energy with me plus a little more 🥺.

⚠️Am I the asshole? Am I not seeing something? I know this is a new relationship but two months and it's already flattening out? It just does not feel right and my feelings are hurt.

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