It’s wrong for not wanting s*x before marriage? 🚩🤡

If y’all have seen my previous post about my perspective wanting to have s*x only after marriage, here is a continuation of what some haters have to say about my POV previously.

So most of you will prob know this app / platform that Instagram created called NGL (u can call it a 2022 version of ask.fm). You can post your own unique link on ur story / bio on IG and when people click on it they can ask you ques but their identity will be kept anonymous🫣

I decided to just try NGL for fun and someone (obv anonymous) asked me whether I have alr “piak piak” w my bf before LOL and I am comfortable with answering this ques so just answered “no piak piak till after marriage” on my story.

And then there were q a few responses (you can see more on the 2nd slide LOL)… there were a mix of insults and backhanded compliments that praised about my appearance but then went on to associate my s*x life with it idgi lol…and some just kept saying that my bf will cheat on me bc I dw to have s*x before marriage 🤡 I’m just appalled by how dense some people are + how cowardly they were to use this platform to attack me anonymously 👽

BUT thankfully, I am super adamant about my stance on this issue and those who faced the same / similar situation as me, you should NOT be affected by these people who are so superficial!! 🚩🚩🚩

-DEFINE YOUR OWN WORTH

—> it may sound cliche but really, don’t let anyone doubt your own value! Others can say or judge what they want but, especially when this is your OWN BODY and your OWN LIFE and RELATIONSHIP. They have no rights to question your decision. Ignore what others say because you ONLY LIVE ONCE, you can’t please every single person in your life, it’s unrealistic and tiring. 💀🤡

-DO WHATEVER MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD AND HAPPY

—> If you know what you want, then don’t let others dictate or control your mindset / what you should do! As long as you and ur partner are happy in your r/s and respect each other’s decision to only do it after marriage, this is all that really matters. You have a relationship w your partner, not with the hundreds or thousands of haters that judge and insult your choice!!

Just wanted to also thank everyone else who understood my POV and supported me in my previous post hehe remember to stay firm in your own choice and value and ignore the useless haters’ comments 🫶

#CelebrateWomen #selflove #selfcare #relationship #relationshipgoals #respect #Lemon8SG