Detachment Is So Sexy…

Yes,I have a boyfriend but I promise you if my sweet man left today I would be fine tomorrow .#romanticizeyourlife

you ready ? Ok .💭💭

I have never taken baggage🧳 into another relationship.anytime I’ve ever left a man I don’t just jump into another relationship . I give myself time to reflect on what I really want in a partner and what mistakes I made in the past relationship .

I pour 💧🌳into myself while I’m with or without a man . Rather he’s here or not my nails ,hair ,and lashes will still be done . I will continue to go out rather it’s with friends or alone🥂🥂 .

The key is to be a little conceited girl ! 👏🏾

Make sure with or without a man you can hold your own .still look good .feel good . I promise men notice things like this .

Men say they don’t Chase but In days like this if they see a girl that really doesn’t “need “ them …they want her more because when she finally does need him (for example ..your car is having a issue and u ask him for help ) HE WILL FEEL LIKE THE SHIT . He’s going to appreciate you more and treat you better knowing you’re not a little girl that is gonna sit and wait on him ..your a women that demands nothings less then a man that cares for you .

Even financially a guy can know you have money and want to keep you spoiled because honestly …it’s sexy to a lot of REAL MEN. Be yourself ,focus on your interest , pour into yourself .

Litteraly rn I’m about to start learning a new language ,making music (for fun ) ,get my first house built ,and I’m traveling going all over the map 🗺️ ….i could give 2 shiznips if a 🥷🏾text me “wyd “ .LIVING .i post hints to the things i like to see who it may attract and how much someone may want me .like flowers 🌺 I love when I get flowers or spontaneous dates 💌

Women just don’t know how much power they hold ….men used to make us sit pretty and have babies …we are in a new era ..I don’t have to have anything to do with you if I don’t want to .what are you going to do that makes me want to be with you because I need someone who isn’t going to ignore me or shut me out …I didn’t bring you baggage so don’t include me in ur bs .🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾and you can express this gently not an argument just a statement .” If we can’t give each other what we need then let’s cut ties ..I really have feelings for you but a soft women like me needs someone who is trying to connect spiritually as well as sexually . “ he is a either gonna wanna kiss you or run away in fear because a lot of men fear genuine love .

If he leaves don’t beat yourself up . 🫗pour …tell yourself “ I’m just protecting myself my body ,and my soul.i do not chase men. I bring life I am a gift like no other …” as dramatic as it may sound to some thinking like this boosts your self worth and confidence .you want different .use my hashtag #notanargumentjustatment

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