6 Important Things to Discuss Prior to Marriage

Hey Beautiful, Yann here!

Getting married is a big deal, and you need to make sure you’re on the same page. Here are the 6 important things you need to discuss before you get married!

—Money and Finance

Talking about money is never easy, but its so important to discuss your finances frankly before you get married. You need to be honest about any debt, credit cards and potential overdrafts before tying the knot.

—Where Do You Want to Live

Perhaps you both live in the city right now, but one of you wants to move to the countryside in a few years, or want to move back to their hometown if or when you have children.

—How would you raise your child

This is a big question! Do they believe in being strict with children, or do they have quite relaxed views? All these question need to be explored as having a baby has huge impact your relationship, and you dont want to wait until that first temper tantrum to have a discussion about how to deal with.

—What Kind of Wedding Do You Really Want

This is really important. After getting engaged, it’s pretty fair to assume both of you want to be married each other, but that doesn’t always mean a wedding. If one of you wants a register office ceremony with a small dinner, but the other want a lavish affair in a castle, you need to establish this early on and find ways to compromise.

—What Do You Want to Save Up For

If one of you have a dream car, and the other a dream holiday home, how do you decide a save for these things? What do you consider essential in your day to day spending like a cleaner or personal trainer? What can you cut to save up, like streaming services or a gym membership.

—What About Each Other’s Family

You need to consider how much each others families will be in your day to day life. Will your new mother in law provide childcare, does your father expect to move in with you one day? How do you feel about the different family situations you might face?

Thats all for today! Its all based in my experience.. Hope it helps!

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