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Hello, lemonade!

In today’s post, I will give you some tips how to maintain your friendship last longer.

For the record, aku punya sahabat dari SD, we’ve been close for 13 years, daaaaan for I can remember, kami ngga pernah marahan atau musuhan. So, I will give you guys some tips based on my experience to maintain our friendship.

1. Respect each other pov

Pernah ga sih kalian ngerasa ngga setuju atau ngerasa pendapat dan pandangan kalian itu lebih benar dan baik dibanding orang lain? That could be a trigger to start a fight loh☹️ Baiknya, kita hargai pandangan orang lain, dalam hal ini terutama padangan sahabat kita. ‘cause so many pov in this life and no one can push what’s the better one is.

2. Have a routine sharing session

Aku dan sahabatku usually cerita mulai dari hal yang ngga serius sampe hal yang serius. Disini kita jadi bisa tau sahabat kita lebih dekat loh, dan kita bisa mempererat emotional feeling towards each other. Dalam sharing ini pun, kita jadi lebih sadar bahwa orang yang kita anggap sahabat adalah orang yang bener-bener kuat, tegar, keren!🔥

3. Lots of quality time

Believe it or not, hampir tiap minggu kami sleepover! ‘cause everytime I spend time with her, it makes me light and happy! kaya punya saudara seumuran😭

Dengan banyaknya quality time, ini juga jadi salah satu cara untuk mempererat ikatan emosional sebagai seorang sahabat loh!

Aku ada beberapa rekomendasi aktifitas yang bisa dilakuin bareng sahabat saat quality time

- piknik (bisa cerita dan foto-foto lucuuu)

- sleepover (has a longer time to spend)

- movie marathon (bisa nangis, ketawa bareng)

- strolling around your city

- Kulineran (our fav)

4. A genuine careness

I looooove my bestie so much! but i’m kind of the person who can’t tell straight forward about that. But I will do an act to show her my careness, and whenever she needs help or a person to vent, I will be there!!!

5. Open up to each other

One time, kami lost contact for 3 months since we had a miscommunication. Ku kira dia marah, dan sebaliknya juga. But at the end, we contacted each other and turns out it just a miss out. So we decided to be more open and ask if there’s something could be wrong.

6. Celebrate every moments

Celebrate a special occasion like birthday, graduation or wedding, or something more!

Well, that’s some of my tips. We have like 13 years of fiendship now, and she will be my bestfriend always!

Have a goodlife, everyone!

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