Soalan Yang Mesti Kena Bincang Sebelum Kahwin! 🙈🙊

1) am i happy to be in this relationship? Of course, relationships does not owe your happiness but still you kena tahu whether this relationship make you happy or mostly sad. Why kena tau? Sebab you definitely tak nak go through marriage being sad over your relationship. Contohnya, your relationship dengan your bf sangat stressful sebab mak ayah tak berkenan. Even with both of you love one another, can you actually be happy to go through it after marriage.

2) are we growing together ? To continue long terms commitment, you mesti kena tahu if both of you going into same direction or can go through the new changes for each other. Macam this particular question is something my husband and i cakap for a long time cause we both want to make sure we are not stopping one another from achieving things.

3) is this relationship balanced? Making sure both of you are making effort for one another and not just one sided. Bila you tau that he do his best for you then you know there’s hope in the relationships but kalau you sorang je, at least you tau awal maybe this is not the right person to be marrying.

4) am i with a good person? See if he’s a good person to you in terms of the way he handle things, the way he take care of his family, etc. Macam I, I know i want to marry my husband after knowing how great a person he is for being there for his family especially towards his little brother. I just know his parents brought him up so well that i tak rasa takut pun nak kahwin dengan dia. I believe he can be there for our little family.

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