Do this before get yourself in RELATIONSHIP!

Before you hop into a romantic relationship, it's important to do a little prep work and thinking about a few things to make sure it's a good and happy relationship. Here's are some things to consider before getting into relationship

1. Learn to validate yourself and make yourself happy: Its so important for you to learn how to appreciate yourself and your growth. This way you won't be in relationship out of loneliness or out of pressure that everyone else is in relationship. Enjoy your single life to the fullest and be happy on your own, this way you tak akan regrets or have the toxic trait of wanting your partner to make you happy.

Relationship will be less complicated if you started of in a good vibes (not the festival) but what it means is that you're mentally stable. I personally had the best single life until I was 22 years old and when I got together with my partner, it happened naturally and it does not feel force.

2. Know what you want in life and in your partner: Don't be afraid of scaring people by saying what you looking for. If they reject you for who you are then they definitely not the one for you. I've been throught couple of rejection and honestly, thank you for rejecting me sebab I am so sure it won't work out all. Sebab at that time, I don't know what I want and all I know was he's cute. Cute is not enough to start a relationship tau, girls.

3.Financial stability: Did anyone ever tell you relationship is expensive? The pre halal of it is definitely expensive cause you need money to spend on dates (eventho pergi mamak, rm10 still counts ahh) but after awhile you dah start share load with another, it gets better of course.

But girl, do consider this sebab kadang for some people there will be a pressure to spend and boleh jadi gaduh. When i started my relationship, our dates were just at mamak sebab we still students then and we feel a bit stress kadang nak date sebab tak ada duit nak splurge. Now, we enjoyed it sebab dah kerja and finacially stable.

4. Be open to growth: Prepare yourself to adapt to new changes. Be willing to grow and evolve within the relationship. A tip from me based on experience, check his background first and see if you fit enough to change to that. Everyone have different upbringing and for long lasting relationship, you need to be able to adapt to each other lifestyle.

5. Heal from past relationship: If you still thinking about your ex, simpan niat you nak start new relationship. Relationship is not like camping to heal, its more like a house that you paid to live so you jaga rumah tu elok2. Maksudnya jaga hati pasangan baru you, they have feelings too. So before starting new relationship, get your closure.

Dah siap checklist all these 5, I think you're pretty much ready to start relationship.

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