Who Should Pay On Dates? Me or Him 🤔🫣

Many expect that the guy should be the gentleman and pay but time have changed. Not everyone rich to splurge and not even that, they have to splurge for 2 thats a lot.

If you want a realistic and long term relationship, there are few things you need to consider in this?

🪄Understand your partner financial

Pick place based on the budget. Don't pick omakase if you know your partner are not financially stable to splurge. Pilih ikut kemampuan. My husband and I was always at mamak before we both secure job but now we have permanant job, we're finanlly get to treat each other to fancier place but of course not all time.

🪄 Communicate with one another on financial

Communicate with your partner, let him know your expectation. If men like you, he will try to make it work but also think for him too. You may be a cutie pie but if he's the only one giving its not fair isnt it so give and take.

The reason that it is crucial for one to know that is because life is not like movie. In real life, people have commitments after every date. By understanding one another financial struggle, you could set a budget together and enjoy it within both of your budget.

Personally for me, at the beginning of my relationship I practice split bills or rotate on who pay for the meal. The reason being, I bukan wife dia lagi so tak layak la i ask him to spoil me and is not his responsibility to spoil his gf. I mean its cute kalau dapat that treatment but I just don't have high expectation on it, well except on special occasion. Now as a wife, we practice sharing rezeki together. If I have extra rezeki this month, I will belanja you and vice versa. Never expect but more sharing it together.

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