OPPOSITES ATTRACTED😍🧲 , what’s next?

💑 Questions to Ask Your Partner! 💭

Discovering that my boyfriend (INTJ) and I (ESFP) are almost total opposites on the surface, we knew we'd encounter conflicts along the way. To navigate these challenges, we proactively communicated our needs early on, making our conflict resolution process smoother. If you're in a similar situation, here are essential topics to discuss with your partner:

Love Languages 💌

Did you know that our giving and receiving love languages can differ? My primary 💕love languages 💕are physical touch 🤝and words of affirmation🗣️, but I also express love through gifting 🎁and quality time👩‍❤️‍👨. However, my partner isn't keen on gifting, so I adjust my love languages to meet his needs and ensure he feels loved too!

Anger Expression 🔥

Managing anger is crucial, especially for "opposites" couples like us. While my partner tends to stonewall and prefers 🧠logical problem-solving, I'm more 😭emotionally😡 driven and tend to impulsively address issues in the heat of the moment. We've found a balance by giving ourselves enough ⏰ time to cool off and think logically, yet we limit our arguments to a maximum of one week to prevent feelings of neglect💔.

Priorities 🎯

Given our differing preferences and what brings us joy, we make sure to prioritize individual 🛀self-care and pursue our passions 😽. This prevents excessive codependency and losing our sense of self. By allowing time apart to focus on personal priorities like school and self-growth, we recharge ourselves⚡️🔋. When we reunite, we can give each other our undivided attention and cherish our time together!

Remember, open and honest communication is the key 🔑to a healthy and thriving relationship. Take the time to discuss these questions with your partner and strengthen the bond you share. ❤️ #RelationshipGoals #CommunicationIsKey #GirlTalk