Boleh ke berpura bahagia? 🥺🥺🥺

Imagine that you're in unhappy marriage and you wanted a divorce but you have kids. Suara2 di belakang ni mcm biasa la, kesian kan anak-anak, nanti anak ini nanti anak itu.

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First. You shouldn't. Let me tell you why. Kids can feel the tension. The can sense that they're unhappy. Boleh jadi korang akan tersalur that negative energy to them. So don't!

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Cmon, your kids deserve a loving parents. Kalau korang dah menyampah & slalu begadoh, do you think it modelled a good behavior? NOPE!

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And lastly, I would say YOU DESERVE BETTER. Happier person tend to be a better person overall towards their friends, co-workers and even their own kids. So kalau korang tak happy, how would you want your kids to be happy?

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I have a very close friend that ended up with divorce eventhough she knows it's going to be hard with kids etc but I'm glad that she finally does and she seems to be in a better place now. I love to see where she is now. Sometimes, staying married is just not ur cup of tea and it's ok.

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