WHY YOU SHOULDN’T GET MARRIED ❌❌❌

I got married because it was arranged that way as we need to be in a halal term before flying to UK to pursue our MSc. Don't get me wrong, we also do love each other.

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I'm not saying that marriage is a bad thing. But I do think that it's important to be aware of the challenges before you get married. Here are some reasons why you shouldn't 🙅🏻‍♀️:

1️⃣ You're not ready for the commitment. Marriage is a big commitment. Imagine about being sleep deprived 🤯 and still have to function as if everything is going well. Imagine when you have added responsibilities, expectations. Remember that you're signing up this for a long time, some till the end of life.

2️⃣ You want to focus solely on your own personal growth and development. Read this - If you're not ready to give up some of that time, then you shouldn't get married 😬.

3️⃣ Getting married sebab social status 💆🏻‍♀️. Marriage is not something that you should do for other people. It's something that you should do because you want to. If you're getting married sebab pressure dgn umur, makcik2 etc, better don't!

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If you're thinking about getting married, I urge you to think carefully about your reasons for doing so ❤️

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