Help me!!

Im so worried that he is drifting. I trust him with everything I have and I’m positive he’s the loyal type but he makes me feel like I’m insane when I’m not standing in front of him. I try my best to communicate clearly and respectfully when I feel or see issues that interfere with our relationship not only because It’s healthy but because he gets upset with me if I don’t bring something up. He doesn’t communicate clearly with me like I do with him and we’ve discussed it many times but there is no change. I can’t get him to look at my messages for the entire day even though he’s at home and on his phone. I’ve tried to talk to him about the not responding unless I call but he keeps brushing it off. It gets better when I’m next to him physically though, this is why I feel so crazy. If I’m in front of him he’s the best boyfriend ever but as soon as I leave it feels like he’s got better things to do until I come see him again. We both understand that he needs time to decompress after we’re together for a little bit (this was the most clear communication I’ve gotten from him + decompressing from being around your partner for a while is healthy and helps prevent codependency) and I’ve always given him that time to let me know when he can comfortably talk again. (We’re both neurodivergent, his adhd and my audhd clash and things can get really sticky sometimes) Again I love him so much he has made me feel like me again but he’s talking to me less and less and I don’t know what to feel about it.

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