Looking out for green flag? ✅🟢💚

Green flag, yellow flag, red flag. I really like this traffic light, Gen Z way of measuring things, especially when it comes to romantic partners hahah! I’m a millennial and our era probably had phrases like “ai stead mai,” “toxic,” and “can BTO.” So lame hahaha! My fellow Millennials, do you all agree? 😆🚦

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I recently watched some clips about green flags in a partner. I know this can be subjective to some degree, but there are definitely some things that are indeed green flags. So it got me thinking, “How do you find such green flags?” Then it struck me — “by being the green flag” 🟢

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What ran through my mind is that if you make yourself a green flag, maybe by law of attraction, or birds of a feather flock together, it seems like there would be a higher chance of attracting other green flags. Certain traits become more prominent and naturally capture each other’s attention. 🪶

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I also think by trying to make ourselves more of a ‘green flag,’ we become more aware of ourselves and what to look out for in a partner. I feel like this helps add certainty in the search for a romantic partner as you clearly know what ‘green flags’ you want to look out for. It also gives you a a sense of confidence right? If you know you are a green flag, if you know your worth, you probably won’t want to settle for anything less. 💚

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Here’s the thing — green flags are often seen as ‘boring’ or ‘unexciting.’ But ironically, I find such thoughts to be a yellow flag. Hahah! What do you all think? Does it make sense to become a ‘green flag’ to find another ‘green flag’? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♂️

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