I got sexually harassed on a date…

3 years ago, I went on a date with this guy. We chatted online for awhile and soon after he asked to meet for drinks. I was down because he seemed nice and genuine. Fast forward to the date, we went to Prinsep Street to drink, at the start he was nice, we shared a buckle of soju and he order shots for himself. Overall, it was a good date, we played games and got to know each other better. After we left, he suggested to go to Istana Park because he wanted to sober up. I was fine with it.

But things got weird when he asked to sit at a super dark spot, there was no street lights and we were covered by bushes and trees. Plus it was raining so the bench was wet. I tried to persuade him to finding a better spot to sit but he was stubborn. He even offered to take off his shirt to wipe the bench. I stopped him and just used tissues to wipe them.

Things got even more worse from here. He straight up asked to touch my boobs and asked how big they were. I was taken aback because 1. I was dressed conservatively like jeans with cardigan and no cleavage shown. So I was fully covered 2. His tone and attitude changed from being considered to thinking with his dick.

I said no and didn’t bother to answer his question. He became more advance from here. He touched me without my consent… He just kept on touching (boobs, ass, kept on putting his hands into my clothing). I kept on pushing him away but he didn’t stop, only kept on being more aggressive each time. I stood up, and told him I’ve had enough and I’m leaving.

I just left him there and walked towards mrt. The minute I was out of his sight, I just broken down. That was a terrifying experience and I hope the other girls he met aren’t treated this way or they are okay. A super horrible and traumatic date that I wish no one should go through.

Babes please be safe and know how to protect yourself. (guys too)

Stay safe babes💋