How to be more thick skinned?

Ugh, bad start this morning when I have an important presentation later - I think universe is telling me something - maybe to stop being judgy or what

I’m on the bus, right? It’s packed, but there’s some space. There’s this lady just standing right by the door, not moving an inch. Like, hello? There’s room next to you!

Just take a tiny step in! It’s not like anyone’s asking them to go all the way to the back of the bus. A little shuffle, that’s all.

I always try to move in a bit, even if it’s crowded. It’s not much, but it makes a difference, right? Though sometimes I wonder if I’m just overthinking it. Maybe I’m being too harsh?

And then—oh my god, this one really got me—I’m standing in front of this kid who’s sitting, and when he gets up, I’m literally about to sit down when this lady, out of nowhere, just *bumps* into me and takes the seat! I didn’t even see her coming. So annoying. She is not old btw! Not that I need a seat but is just annoying - people are lacking courtesy these days.

I didn’t even say anything. I didn’t have the guts to call her out. What if she made a scene? People film everything these days. Even if you’re in the right, it can get blown way out of proportion.

One wrong move and suddenly you’re the bad guy on some viral post. People love to blow things up.

It’s scary. I didn’t want to end up on someone’s TikTok as "that person" just for standing up for myself.

I get that people are stressed, but basic decency shouldn’t be so hard, right?

I need to learn to have 钝感力 so that I won’t be easily affected by such stuff again! Not to be overly sensitive to what others say or do, and simply brush things off.