am i the CBKIA?? pt 1

hi besties! i used to date a 🚩🚩🚩 guy when i was 19. i went from a guaikia to a 'paikia' while dating him but it helped me to mature a little bit :) i will be sharing some of the interesting stories i have during our time together and you can decide if i was the CBKIA in the relationship ٩(^ᗜ^ )و

we went clubbing together in the past. one time, i saw a mutual and decided to talk to him! we talked about our mutual friend. at the end of our conversation, he asked me for my instagram. i saw it as a friendly gesture and gave it to him. after that, i tried to look for my ex but he was nowhere to be found!

turns out, he got jealous over me talking to this guy and couldn't believe i gave him my instagram. he and his best friend left the club and he threatened to break up if i couldn't find him in the next 20mins. he sent me a telebubble of a hotel lobby he was at and didn't reply me anymore. i was panicking and running all over orchard trying to find him! luckily i used google reverse image search and found the hotel's name 🤣🤣 (genius right) i literally ran for 10mins? cause the hotel wasn't near the club. anyway i found him and we patched things up and didn't breakup LOL

okay i understood his POV but i felt like he was reacting childishly by running away and threatening to breakup over this matter instead of stopping the conversation or asking to talk outside the club?? from my pov, i feel that sharing instagram is okay because it doesn't mean we are best friends/dating if we follow each other? and even if that mutual had bad intentions, i would not reciprocate or entertain him if he contacted me through instagram..

so what do you guys think? am i the CBKIA?

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