3 Things Ive Learned In a Healthy Relationship

1️⃣ the evidence of a healthy relationship is NOT the absence of conflict:

I used to think healthy relationships meant that you didn’t have disagreements or misunderstandings when now I’m realizing it’s all about how you HANDLE conflict

2️⃣ with every relationship comes a specific set of problems:

no matter who you get with.. you’re going to have issues. Every relationship you get in will have its strengths and weaknesses, you choose what problems you’re taking on.

3️⃣ The partner for you will meet you where you are at..

If you have specific boundaries that work for you, find a partner that works with that. Too often we try to MAKE people be comfortable with our boundaries and needs. There is someone out there who is more than capable of meeting those boundaries. #hellolemon8 #dating #love #healthyrelationship #relationshipadvice