HE asked ME to move in together

living in Miami is expensive as fuck bro and right now as everyone knows I’m living with seven guys (and I love them all very much because there’s super protective)

but I want to save up and either get my own place or move in with one roommate where we both have our own private rooms because that is a lot more space.

I also want some thing more open or with more windows for my videos so that I can create more content on TikTok and when I mentioned it at work, one of my coworkers came up to me and ask why don’t you move in with him because he’s planning on moving out to a two bedroom where he has his private room as well.

we talked about it for a few days, but I told him I’m not willing to share a room again so we agree that if you find something that is within both of our budget that is a two bedroom apartment by the beach, that we would move in together.

today at work, I approached him and told him that I am actually considering it and if you find something you should send it my way so that we can look at it because the budget we both have is only four to $500 more than I’m paying right now (I know that sounds like a lot more, but with my salary, I can’t afford it and going from the eight people in a two bedroom apartment, which is for to being alone in a room and only two people in an apartment is worth the extra money for me.

I told him to just make sure if his girlfriend will be OK with that because I don’t wanna step on toes or make anyone upset because I’m very respectful and someone another lady I will make sure to not put her in an uncomfortable position .

he told me before she doesn’t care or that he doesn’t really care and I asked him why he didn’t move in with her instead and he told me he’s just not ready for that type of he would rather just stay with friends because serious as a step in a relationship.

What I didn’t know, though is that when I asked him today to just confirm with her and make sure there won’t be issues -she was in and heard me say that🙃

personally, I didn’t think it was a big deal because he is supposed to ask her anyway, but the issue was she came to me while I was busy making someone’s order and question me about what he is supposed to ask her.

obviously, I was caught off guard and instead of just saying “ you should really talk to him about it because that is your relationship and not mine” I responded and explained the situation.

her face dropped and I could tell she was not happy, and then she asked me what he said, and I told her that he said he would ask her -even though he didn’t he actually said that it doesn’t matter what she says- but I was trying to save his ass.

then before she left the restaurant, she walked up to me with her arms crossed, and very aggressively said “ I don’t want you to move in with him. Find another roommate.” and stormed off.

I understand that she might feel intimidated and I am understand why she would be upset but it’s still not my situation. She should be talking to her boyfriend about this. I also understand that I’m the one who told her what he said because she was questioning me and i felt under pressure SO I KNOW I SHOULD’VE SAID SHE NEEDS TO ASK HIM.

i’m not upset at all. I actually thought it was funny because she directed all of her anger towards me and that meant that she thinks I’m pretty because otherwise she wouldn’t have been intimidated or cared.

and I don’t really care how that sounds because I did take it as confidence was because if someone looks at you funny because their boyfriend looked at you it means they’re insecure or they think you’re hot so I’m taking it as a win because she thought it was hot and I’m not letting her anger affect my mood at all.

but I did tell him to talk to her about it after she left and also asked him if she even knows that we play Pickleball together too because I don’t think she’ll be okay with that by the way she acted today and if she is not then he needs to stop and respect her💅

anyways, I’m still going to look for a roommate roommate, but if I find a place I can afford on my own I would rather just live by myself instead of having to rely on someone else 😌🤌🏼

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