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Dating someone safe isnโt a bad thing! Itโs not about settling but more of making you feel comfortable and giving you a safe space ๐ค
so, how to know if your partner is โsafeโ?
๐ are they receptive to feedback? ๐
You should be able to share with them your opinions openly, for example things like โI didnโt appreciate the tone you used just nowโฆ โ, โyou did XYZ that really bothered meโ etc. (Of cos donโt make it paggro)
they donโt have to change but being receptive to feedback allows for more open communication and helping each other becoming a better person for the other!
๐ do they take accountability? ๐
If your partner is always putting the blame on someone or on you, major ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ ! If youโre gna spend the rest of your life with one person, he/she should be able to own up to mistakes and say โsorry itโs my faultโ.
It doesnโt always have to be mistakes, sometimes my bf OTs a lot and he would come home to say โsorry I havenโt been around much lately but โฆ. โ
๐ do they respect your boundaries?
Do they actively listen to you? When you tell them things or share about your struggles how do they react? Do they genuinely care for you?
๐๐ผ plot twist ๐๐ผ
after learning about this topic I felt that actually I wasnโt really a good partner for my bf ๐ฅฒ I was never really good in communicating, it stresses me out as a people pleaser but I started to realise that my needs are important too and if I donโt say them out loud, my partner can never be able to help me.
so, sis has got some improvement to do!!
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