If you’re a new mom READ THIS‼️

This is my third baby and I made the mistake by having a revolving door of visitors with my first.

I wasn’t even in the recovery room, blood on the floor, and people were snatching my first born off my chest during golden hour. No one washed their hands and all wanted pictures with her. I had a hard time breastfeeding and I feel that this was a main factor because a binky was shoved in her mouth almost right away due to people wanting to hold her. I was young and didn’t expect my loved ones to treat me like that.

The second baby, I made it clear just me and my partner. However, despite my many efforts in telling people “no” and setting those boundaries they STILL CAME. I still wanted to keep people in the loop so I told them my induction date. People just showed up. It has caused many problems with in the family since. I was too exhausted to fight them on it but luckily my fiance helped be bouncer.

This third baby we are keeping our due date and even delivery extremely private. No one. And I mean NOONE other than the people watching my children will know!

**If you’re a new mom and you know you want special bonding time with your new baby and partner, set those boundaries now.**

There is plenty of time for those to “bond” with your baby after

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