3 tips to be a great girlfriend/wife

I have made a previous post sharing tips to be a good partner — it is hard to be a good partner every day but there are some simple things you can do to make your relationship work and to built a strong connection with your partner.

1- take some time to just talk, listen to each other: the best moments I have with my partner are when there are no distractions around us and we just talk and listen to each other. I like to have dinner with no TV, no phones, and we just enjoy dinner, having a good conversation. You can talk about a lot of things, and for me I like to talk about subjects that are important to me, talk about my past and trauma, talk about self growth and how we can be better versions of ourselves. Sometimes we can talk like this for hours and then we look at our watch and it’s so late! Those moments for me are the best. This is how i think you can build a strong connection and also learn and become the best version of yourself.

2- plan dates: YES. PLAN DATES PLEASE. This is maybe stupid to say, but you have to keep dating each other. It’s important to make time just for the two of you, get out or stay in, this is your preference. But make it a date. Plan it, prepare it and enjoy this time together. I personally love to cook with my husband and get to eat something we made together. It’s simple, yet so romantic.

3- give your partner some space too: this is also important. Living together is so nice and being married is what makes me happy in life. But i know that I like to have my time just with myself and I know he likes that too. So we are not together 24/7, there are some moments in our lives that are dedicated only to ourselves. And I love spending time on my own. It makes me reflect on things on a deeper level and I am happier and more excited to spend time with my husband after!

What are your tips to be a good partner?

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