having a boyfriend with strict parents

just to preface this, i love my mom and i am grateful for having her in my life. i also understand that other may have a worse situation or worse life than me, but this is merely my story!

so take it with a pinch of salt!!🧂

📖storytime!📖

my mom has never allowed me to meet my bf, so sometimes i sneak out, seemingly in school but actually with my guy.

now, i have only done this twice and all the times i have been quite guilty!

however, i know my bf isnt a bad person INFACT to make sure that he was the right person, i got to know him as a friend for 5 YEARS🗣️🗣️

for the few times we hung out, we really didnt go anywhere- the first time it was just downstairs my house, and the second was at a mall near my school. saying that makes my soso grateful for my bf, because we live nearly 1hour away from each other and whenever we do meet we only meet for like an hour OR LESS???

so my mom knows about this guy (duh, i knew him since primary school) but she would never allow me to date him. she often says that i can only date at 21years old, only when i start university… so maybe ill only tell her that i have a bf at 21😇😇

after the first meeting with my boyfriend, it just so happened that my mom wanted to take a walk downstairs… WHICH SHE USUALLY DOES NOT DO, but i digress. when i saw her come out of the lift, I WAS STUNNED, i grabbed my bf and hit a 100m sprint. we hid behind a wall, while i called my mom telling her i was on the way back home, and asked where she was going to be at. she told me she was going to buy food, which did not pass the wall my bf and i were hiding behind!!! so we just sat behind the wall talking HAHAHAH

my heart was beating so fast, not because of my bf but because of my mom🤡🤡

for our second meeting my bf gave me his shirt, i came home wearing it BECAUSE I COMPLETELY FORGOT.

that was when my mothers questioning began, “why you got that shirt”, “she gave you that shirt”, “where were you”….. and obviously i had to lie,

i said it was a CCA tee shirt because i was suppose to be at CCA (it got cancelled i swear i didnt skip cca).

she believed it!!

i would also like to say that, as someone who loves to give gifts, i always buy my bf like a $20 gift basket just to thank him for coming all the way to meet me.

buying that gift basket ISNT EASY, i dont get allowance so i starve just to get enough money to buy him things (check out my last post for more details HAHAHAH)