Dream of a date from years ago?!

So in the dream, for some reason she knew my mom and she came over to the house (mum's place) for a bit.

Somehow in the dream, I previously gave her $1000, and I think my mom did too. We chat a bit but that's it. She was working while I didn't have a job.

Which is weird to even dream of her cause we dated like years ago?? 🤔😳

In reality, we dated like 6 times. But she didn't want to continue cause to her, I'm negative. She said I'm negative cause when she ask me about my work, psychology, and case studies, I share the cases all got issues, anxiety and depression etc.

I told her, while the cases seem negative, what was the end result when I share? How I help them resolve their issues and they are now happy right? So how is it negative? She couldn't reply, then said she didn't want to hear negative things cause she might be affected.

I asked if she is ok with my analysis of why she does this and she said ok. I told her likely she is avoiding facing her own issues, whatever they may be. Being in complete denial of her issues might make life seems more happy, but any one with issues will make her potentially remember her own issues which she hasn't resolved. That's why she doesn't like to hear negative stuff. However, how long can she run away? If boss scold you one time, that triggers her negative emotions, does that mean she will run to another job? Or don't ever work? 😶‍🌫️

She realized what I said made sense. And before we parted, she said I am a great guy and maybe in the future, she might regret not having a relationship with me.

Very strange to dream about her when I never even think of her 🤷‍♂️

However, dreams are random to begin with, and the unconscious mind can randomly find any face to put in the dream. So no, it isn't because I miss her or anything.

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