HAVING INTERNATIONAL BF STRUGGLES! Salty people :(

It's Len and I'm still alive here- wow hospital training was tiring! (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)

Yet, I'm getting lazy of typing captions haha. (⁠｡⁠•́⁠︿⁠•̀⁠｡⁠)

#Susahnya when people being judgemental whenever they asked where my boyfriend came from and then been judged that I don't pick dating locals because I have traumas from it! It's tiring! (⁠｡⁠•́⁠︿⁠•̀⁠｡⁠)

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It's been three months we've been together, and then salty people exists! :(

Haha, no matter when anyone asked if my boyfriend came from- they went commenting negatively about our relationship!

(refer to slide 5!)

Those comments hurts me a lot. A LOT!

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Just because my boyfriend is from America doesn't mean that he's a BAD PERSON! Not everyone in any country is evil! SO STOP ASSUMING THOSE THINGS-

Everyone hates being assumed in NEGATIVE WAY! ಠ⁠_⁠ಠ

I'm getting tired of them asking if he's real or not. He is real and I really don't want to show his full face, only when we are married I'll reveal his face! (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)

Tired of their assumptions I end up threw my anger + stress on my boyfriend and we ALMOST BROKE UP because of salty people.

I'm happy that my man calms me down and I still have my composure back then. Ugh.

That was last month, by the way! Now we both are okay!

Now I only reveal half pics of my man online.

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1. Stop assuming people who have international girlfriend/boyfriend for using AI pics, do people love dating anyone who's that FAKE and with that DISTORTED selfies of them? No one, right? EVERYONE WANTS HONESTY! Do you hear me, HONESTYYYYY‼️ᕦ⁠(⁠ò⁠_⁠ó⁠ˇ⁠)⁠ᕤ

2. Please don't judge them if they said, "I'm traumatized dating locals" and then you went to reply back with harsh answers like,

"IT'S JUST A SMALL TRAUMA YOU CAN GET OVER IT!!",

"Nah, locals is better that you literally can feel their physical touch, spending time together-"

SHUT UP.

Everyone had their own PREFERENCES. If they wished of having an international bf/gf then just don't put their head in the bucket of water and force them to date locals. If you like locals, then like them! I don't judge you for that. (⁠人⁠*⁠´⁠∀⁠｀⁠)⁠｡⁠*ﾟ⁠+

3. Never, EVER wishing them that their international partners will CHEAT on the person. What a sick person are you. Like don't you have something else to do than wishing them being sad forever? How funny are you. ಠ⁠_⁠ಠ I don't see that funny. Ah, also applies wishing on them having bad luck.

4. Stop telling their international partners aren't real! You think EVERYONE is BOTS? I know, you can just go to CAI and talk to your fav fictional characters and brag about you're married to your fav character- but seeing foreigners as bots is so wrong and messed up. I hope you can tell the difference between bots and real humans. Balance that reality + fiction please! :(

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This is a random post + half venting here, don't judge me :( I hope I'm not the only one feeling like this! (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)

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