your guide to low maintenance friendships 🥰

helloo zesties!! 🍋

on this episode of #MyTop3 ~ I will be sharing tips on how to maintain low maintenance #friendships !!

as someone who supports and have low maintenance friendships, I know it is definitely not easy when you don’t contact your friends very often but I do not see a HUGE problem in it at all ~ let me tell you why through my tips below ~

𝘁𝗶𝗽 𝟭: 𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗼𝘂𝘁𝘀

THIS IS SUPER IMPORTANT as someone who is a major planner myself, I love to plan hangouts ahead of time with my friends whom I don’t meet often due to stepping into different schools and different milestones in life 🥺 through hangouts we can catch up on each other life and gossip tehee 😉 I try my best to catch up with my friends monthly if possible!

𝘁𝗶𝗽 𝟮: 𝗯𝗲 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿

following my tip 1, I know it is definitely not easy to plan hangouts with each other as we all have VERY different schedules BUT we should always be understanding with each other and find a common time to meet up ~ regardless if it is just a short lunch/dinner together or a whole day which is the best of course 😍 it is always common for your schedules to not match but making the effort counts! one good tip is to have a shared calendar together!! #timetree is our best friend ❤️‍🔥

𝘁𝗶𝗽 𝟯: 𝗯𝗲 𝘂𝗽𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝘀 𝗺𝘂𝗰𝗵 𝗮𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲

in my first 2 tips, I mention about having meetups right but I know sometimes is a bit impossible too especially if you are in your #adultlife 🥲 so my last tip is be involve in each other lives be it through text or through replying each other ig stories!! this is the bare minimum YOU could do ~ through replying you are able to have mini talks and catch up on what is going on in each other lives despite unable to meetup due to mismatch personal schedules 🥲 but at least you can to see each other lives through social media!! :D

these are some tips and I hope that it was useful <3 but definitely all these low maintenance friendships of mine are built on many years of strong friendships together in school and all <3 I want to say how grateful I’m to have them in my life and always staying by my side ❤️❤️ #friendshipgoals

see you in my next post!

love, Joanne 🤍

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