my BF changed my opinion on ‘ALL BOYS R THE SAME’

hello gurlies 🤍 im back w another post on #Relationship101, this time its on how i hv a total changed of view on guys, my current bf made me felt tht ‘oh…theres actly gentleman out thr’, ‘theres actly guys who are as dedicated as girls in the r/s’… etc

for context; this is my 3rd r/s, & my past 2 r/s were toxic. the below 3 pointers or stories are what i hated abt guys, were insecure abt bc of my exes, & what my current bf did to change my opinion (in a good way ofc)

here comes storytime…

❓why do i hate / felt insecure of XXX

🚩 why it is a red flag for me

👦🏻 how my current boyf changed my view

1️⃣ i hated guys who played games 🙂🙂🙂🙂

❓why u may ask? my ex cld play game the whole day & not reply my messages for HOURS, or maybe he js purposely ignore? our messages for a day is basically js 1 phone screen worth, udeh to scroll ur phone to read the messages, which is basically less thn 5 sentences of convo

i mean how much time can it take for u to reply a msg mid game? the interval btwn our messages cld be FEW HOURS too, bear in mind i reply ALMOST IMMED most of the time 😀

🚩 to me it was a HUGE red flag, bc im someone who loves to talk & know wht ur up to. also idt any girls wld be able to stand their own bf not being able to hold a proper convo right!!!!

👦🏻 so here’s how my current bf made me not hate guys who play games + made me got addicted to gaming:

honestly, when i first started dating my current boyf, when i knew he played games, my first thought was tht ‘oh..he’s gg to tk such a long time to reply my messages’ 🫠

it first started w him showing me how he play games, thn i started trying out w his guidance, he let me play either on the keyboard, thn he controls the mouse or vice versa. i mean its q romantic 🤭 slowly, i started playing on my own & he wld cont to teach me wht to do & how to play 🥹

so instead of leaving me out & playing by himself, he included me, & we wld often play tgt. on days tht he’s playing w/o me, he dosent fail to reply me in btwn games or when he dies in the game

this post is a getting a lil lengthy… let me cont the juicy tea of point 2️⃣ on another post abt how my ex cheated on me w my bestfriend 😀😀

& PART 3 is on how my ex is a gaslighter & manipulator

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