How to become your own “it girl”✨

How to Become "That Girl"

We've all heard of the phrase "IT GIRL" or the "self-care era." I love that women are focusing more on themselves, and it has become a movement rather than a trend!

While I do support self-transformation, I would like to clarify that I believe the ultimate "It Girl" is 100% about improving the best version of yourself There is no specific guideline or shoe size. You can use these tips to create and improve your journey to becoming the "It Girl."

Improving Your Mood⤵️

How you feel about yourself is a major factor on your "It Girl" journey. If it's low self-esteem, insecurities, or acceptance, you must identify why you think the way you do. It's not just about your appearance but also your interests and abilities.

The majority of how we see ourselves is through the eyes of other people. I am 100% guilty of this. How we are perceived and received by others plays a huge role in our identity and confidence. So much of what we believe about ourselves stems from others and often doesn't relate to who an individual is. Un-label yourself and rebrand yourself into the person you want to be. It's possible; stop thinking that it's impossible because this is what's keeping you from becoming who you are truly meant to be.

Improve Your Health⤵️

Another key factor to becoming an "It Girl" is to improve your health. Not just your physique and outer appearance. Strive to improve every aspect of your health. Consider the health of your mind, body, and soul.

Get Organized⤵️

You cannot become the person you desire to be if you aren't prepared. It takes more than just a clean living space that is aesthetically pleasing. You must get organized day to day to become "THAT GIRL." Your schedule needs to be organized, your goals need to be organized. You must create a starting point and chart your growth. Disclaimer: Do not become obsessive. The point of getting organized is to create a balanced and pleasing transition into becoming your best self.

It is possible for you to make a total transformation, but you must understand that it takes real work and does not happen just because you want it to.

Wardrobe Check⤵️

If you have been in a funk lately, you probably haven't been showing up as your best self. You aren’t practicing self-care as you should and are neglecting your true beauty. You may have come to a point where your appearance is your last priority. SNAP OUT OF IT Your appearance is your first impression Show up and show out, that's right You have so much unique and stellar individualism, and it can be shown in your style. Wear it proudly. People appreciate when you show up as yourself; it is the proudest thing you can do!

Confidence is not as expensive as you think. It's actually free. How can you not afford it?

Disclaimer: Don't try to wear it because you saw it on someone or it's trending. This is no copy-and-paste encouragement; be original You are one of one.

Network⤵️

You remember that passion you have, that hidden talent or hobby Maybe you have a business idea or maybe you simply want to mingle and network with like-minded individuals. IT'S TIME TO NETWORK Put yourself in environments that elevate you!

Search for local coffee shops, book clubs, fitness centers, and wherever you need to be to elevate. If you are interested in anything, you must be in the environment where it is supported. It makes a world of a difference to be surrounded by others who show common interest in what you are doing. Becoming "That Girl" doesn't have to become a lonely journey. I encourage you to build healthy relationships and network to brand yourself, the new improved version of yourself

Xoxo, Ivy #thatgirlmindset #thatgirlmotivation #newyou #wellnesslifestyle #confidencetips #rebrand #motivationdaily #iaobrand