Was it an easy journey? 💌

💌 We may look sweet on the outside but of course that is just on social media where we get to choose what we want to post 📲

🧨 There are definitely fights among couples and I personally feel like that stage determines whether you can continue with the relationships or to let go.

1. 💔Have Trust…

This is the toughest one for me as my past relationship ended due to lost of trust… My mother always said not to give my 100% love to guys, BUT HOWWW???

Didn’t really talk about this but me and my bf almost broke up on our 5th year (if I am not wrong) due to trust issues 😩

Thank god we managed to break through that phase but it still haunts you deep down inside and it will never be same 👏🏻

My advice to both parties is that, if you say you are going to change, YOU BETTER‼️ Don’t break the chance another time because you are going to regret it for sure.

2. ❤️‍🔥 Show Love

Don’t let your affection toward each other to die down! Constantly shower each other with love simply by having simple physical touch/skin-ship, kisses, padding on head etc.

Buy flowers for your girl or bake cookies for your boyfriend. If not, a simple appreciation letter works too! 📩

3. 🌴 Go on a date

No matter how busy both of you are, find some time to meet still! I would say meeting with each other to study or do work is not counted for this. A date really means going outside just the two of you, spending quality time together!

It can be once a week thing, once every 2 week (max) I think. A simple movie, brunch/dinner date, shopping date, picnic date works! 🧺

4. 🙊 Communicate

I used to always keep things to myself and that is really toxic!! If you are unhappy, don’t bottle up and instead, communicate with your partner IN A NICE WAY. Don’t ever raise your voice at each other please 😮‍💨 Communication helps us to understand each other better and it is way easier than playing the mind game 🤔

5. ✈️ Travel Together

Wooohooo ~ Have fun they say, but many couple could not get past this stage. I will recommend to travel for more than 2 weeks and you can really see the true colours of each others. You will see how your partner behaves at home and this is where you guys can test if you can stay in the same house in the future 🥰

Thank god my boyfriend can do housework and I can cook teehee 🫶🏻😆

6. ✌🏻Respect each other

My boyfriend used to get annoyed at how many photos or videos I have to take because of work🤣 After some time, he finally understands that this is important to me and he respects my job. Now, he even help me willingly and even correct some of my poses 🤣

For him, even till now, I would complain why is he always playing games… but of course, I wouldn’t stop him as it is his stress reliever I guess!

7. 💍 Be Faithful

Please… I know I know there are many handsome guys and pretty girls out there. It’s okay to look at them but please don’t do anything that would break your relationship!

If you guys have already planned to get married someday, dedicate your love to your partners! NO CHEATING!!!!! Once you cheat it’s game over, even if your partner forgive you and gives you another chance, you still broke their trust alright. It will never be the same anymore 🥲

Okay it’s almost like an essay now! Hope this helps guys, truly based on my experience ✌🏻🤍

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