is LDR worth it? Yes or No? Read this! 📖

Dah kahwin tapi kena long distance relationship pulak! ☹️ Taknak lah! Bila fikir kena LDR ni rasa sedih nak nak masa awal-awal kahwin. Rasa semua benda tak kena takboleh, padhal before this ok je 🫣🥱 Tu lah i!!! Hahahha, Husband i selalu travel back to back, almost every month dia travel for work.

Masa awal-awal kahwin tu rasa Ya Allah susahnya mcm mana lah org survive LDR ni. Tapi lama lama, bila kita dah tahu tactic ha gituh. First sekali kena communicate lah. Jangan lah diam bila ada problem ke apa diam. Pendam pendam pastu lama lama rasa lah nak marah bila marah start la nak bergaduh ohh we wanna avoid that. Biar lah ada healthy communication dlm relationship tu ok! Communicate apa u rasa kurang apa u rasa lebih so both of you can make it work insha Allah

Next, Keluar or prrgi visit your family ke family in law masa husband u outstation. Jangan la duduk rumah je bila kita duduk rumah je bosan lepastuuu rasa lah sedih nangis nangis nape kena ldr!! 🫣 you kena keluar dgn kawan2 u ke shopping ke apa apa u suka buat. Anggap lah time husband u takde ni your me time. sebba kalau dia dh balik kena bagi 100% attention kat husband u pulak kan 😆

Last, Bila dh ldr nii. Celebrate lah birthday ke anniversary ke kalau takde yg terdekat celebrate monthsary ke semua celebrate!! 😆😆 My love language def gift giving so i mmg suka bagi hadiah kat husband i. Everytime dia balik outstation lahhh ada surpriseeeeeee! Hahahah Excited tau beli lepastu nak prepare nak sorok hadiah tu kat mana 🥱🥱 Takpayah mahal pun takpe janji benda u tahu dia suka!!!

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