Is it a 🚩 to be drunk on your first date?

If I didn’t drunk a tower of beer with my current bf on our first date, I would consider it is a red flag 🫣

He slid into my DM and we started chatting then, and here comes the first date. He suggested to grab a drink after dinner on our first date and I went over and beyond by saying let’s have a tower of beer (I was joking but it ended up being a real deal)💀

But honestly I think it is one of the best decisions I’ve made (note: please know how to drink before you even try this out - don’t be wasted drunk drunk)

1. Behaviour after drinking

I like to observe how individuals behave after drinking especially after they are drunk. I cannot stand it when someone is sobbing drunk type or like drama type. It's important to understand what you're getting into before committing to a relationship. We literally behave like old friends who just sat on the bench and chit chat and probably laughed too much💀💀

2. How they take care of you

With my current bf, after we are quite drunk, he still waited for me to board my grab before he book his grab home. If a guy just left before you do, or have other bad intentions when you obviously don’t want then run

3. The convo

I mean you’re also kinda drunk too but most probably able to remember the convo which usually drunk people will spill out all tea without filter.

The bonus? You two will probably have the second date if the vibe was great 🫣

Let me know what is your POV as I’m always kapo to know 🤭

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