Salah I Ke Pregnant Tapi Baby Kecik? 😭

Pernah tak moms kena judge time pregnant sbb baby bump tak nampak pun? Ya, dulu time pregnant my first born, i always kena hadap org cakap "eh keciknya perut, macam tak pregnant pun?" "org lain pregnant jgk tp nampak je bump tu" like everytime. Kata kata ni from my friends tau. Sampaikan satu tahap tu it affected my #MentalHealth & i was too insecure rasa mcm eh tak normal ke eh salah ke pregnant tapi perut kecik 😭 Atau i tak patut take those words negatively?

And yes, my firstborn lahir berat 2.16KG je. Ada yg ingat my baby prem sbb too small tp i lahir cukup bulan 37 weeks. Bila pergi checkup KK, ada this one akak tau yg tegur baby i. She cakap keciknya baby and dia bgtau her baby lahir 4KG, without me asking her pun 🫠 Bayangkan still dalam pantang time tu rasa macam patut ke baby pun kena body shaming 🥲

For me, takpelah baby lahir kecik pun as long as growing healthily. Anak i alhamdulillah every month checkup berat always naik cantik 📈 So korang ada pengalaman macam i tak? Dan #McmneEh nak hadap kalau berdepan dgn these kind of people yg being too judgemental?

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